May we both be honest about what we feel and clear about what we need. May we leave room for God’s will, choosing humility over control and gratitude over fear. Give us wisdom, courage, patience, strength and compassion. Help us pray for each other and everyone affected. May she release ego, and may I release fear. Help us let go of resentment and defensiveness. Keep us grounded, open-hearted and willing to understand. May we surrender the outcome to God fully.